Imagine you are going to die next month on 16th july, what would you do?
First of all, what do i believe after i die? I've got to have some religion to depend on so that i know where i'm going after that.
First of all, i can't reject that there is no ghost, so i have to believe that there is some kind of special force that nobody can exactly explain beside religion. If i don't believe in any religions, please tell me what are you going to do after you die? you just disappear? And your soul? where would it go? By the next month, if i don't believe in any religion, i would just flying around going with some kinds of bad evil who are waiting to drag me down or bring me up, but if i believe in Jesus's Christ, he would help me to bring me up.
Accept the truth is the first stage.
Accept that you still love her, and you are in the progress of moving on.
Accept that you are a piece of shit now, and you need to improve more.
Accept that you have everything that can make me a piece of diamond.
Do i need advice from friends... vuthy
How can i move on fast?
take out the word fast from my mind. make it slower? why? cuz my love on her is still there
Pain + Difficult
We can't do our best to make the sun rise from the west.
With those facts, you can become stronger and greatful for that even it ends too short.
it's like learning from your mistake.
because it's the fact that he can't forget her.
it doesn't mean that she's back you take her, by then you move forward, and you have choices.
Strong= ability to have a choice
in life, if you follow you are weak, if you are weak, no one will come to you.
girls need a shoulder to lean on. you lead her rather than follow her. that's when she feels safe and happy.
Working from yourself first, inside out.
Starting from inside out is very painful, it's required courage, willing to change, motivation, and great discipline=ability to get up even if you can't, ability to go a bit further even if you can't.
Am i ready to bear the painful thing?
who i am and what i really want in life?
starting from learning about the past? what mistake i made in the past? Please learn it clearly , scrutiny it, else you will repeat those again.
love: learning why there is love inside me? what kind of girl you really want to be with? what kind of the you used to love in the past? and why her? not others?
it's the truth about yourself. i can carry only 100kg of rice, then move on to failure? why you fail those time, why you made those mistake? why the thing you wish to have have gone away from you?
then accept your success, i used to love by a girl, i got scholarship,i succed with that love only once, i can do this and that.
Only you have done all these that you can move on and flying to a comfortable room. and this time cuz of your experience you can fly very far away, further than you wish you could fly and then you are strong. this strong man will face a problem in a bodly way. i will not face painful problem anymore cuz the i used to face them already, have the courage to die for what he loves, that's the strong man we eventually be.
Make love as a happy feeling you used to have not let it occupy you. if it's pain, let's it be the lesson you learn and let it be a chance for you to be a real human, for this fact, i will not miss to do anything in real life because at least you have done something
DO IT SERIOUSLY!!! YOU WILL NEVER KNOW THAT TOMORROW CAN BE TOO LATE.
WE CAN'T CONTROL THE FAST OR THE FUTURE BUT WE CAN CONTROL THE PRESENT.
START CHANGING THE PRESENT IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHO YOU ARE NOW.
GIVE MYSELF A CHANCE TO CHANGE IF NO ONE GIVE YOU, PLEASE GIVE YOURSELF.
Take Your Time.
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